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		By: internet cafe		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 11:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Dorothea		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 May 2013 03:29:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though 
you relied on the video to make your point. You definitely know what youre talking about, why 
waste your intelligence on just posting videos to your site when you could be 
giving us something enlightening to read?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though<br />
you relied on the video to make your point. You definitely know what youre talking about, why<br />
waste your intelligence on just posting videos to your site when you could be<br />
giving us something enlightening to read?</p>
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		By: Joe Taylor		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 21:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Interesting programme on BBC 4 tonight about metamophosis eh?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting programme on BBC 4 tonight about metamophosis eh?</p>
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		By: Jerry Young		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 21:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Your post resonates ion several levels - firstly, as you say, we live in polarising times where fear, an emotion which we all need to survive, can easily become an excessive part of the way we live. Our era also is characterised by a huge amount of noise all around us, mostly digital, where we all have time fear. These elements mean that listening is not something high on the agenda, but by listening carefully to the voices both within us and externally, is the key to success and balance.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your post resonates ion several levels &#8211; firstly, as you say, we live in polarising times where fear, an emotion which we all need to survive, can easily become an excessive part of the way we live. Our era also is characterised by a huge amount of noise all around us, mostly digital, where we all have time fear. These elements mean that listening is not something high on the agenda, but by listening carefully to the voices both within us and externally, is the key to success and balance.</p>
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		By: Debra		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 11:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I wonder if we would be having fewer problems if we were not (and that includes me..) attempting to say things in some places that really belong in others ?
Saying things in some places that belong in others ?
Showing things that should not be shown ? In inappropriate places ?
Is this a consequence of the &quot;one size fits all&quot; mentality ?
I share your interest, dave.. and wonder why we think that we are weird...
Except that fear is not necessarily people&#039;s only, or principal motivation.
Overemphasis on &quot;being safe&quot; has multiplied our perception of insecurity, and our fears...
The, uh.. &quot;safer&quot; we are, the safer we want to be, most of us.
The tendency of the... flock to believe that more of a good thing is always better ?
What we believe as individuals is not necessarily the same as what we believe as the flock..
Two days ago I had a heated discussion with a man, and realized that we had no common ground...Perhaps we should not have been talking about what we were talking about, and we would not have noticed that we had no common ground ?
The next time I meet him, I will smile, be polite, and... not engage conversation...
Or just talk about the weather...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I wonder if we would be having fewer problems if we were not (and that includes me..) attempting to say things in some places that really belong in others ?<br />
Saying things in some places that belong in others ?<br />
Showing things that should not be shown ? In inappropriate places ?<br />
Is this a consequence of the &#8220;one size fits all&#8221; mentality ?<br />
I share your interest, dave.. and wonder why we think that we are weird&#8230;<br />
Except that fear is not necessarily people&#8217;s only, or principal motivation.<br />
Overemphasis on &#8220;being safe&#8221; has multiplied our perception of insecurity, and our fears&#8230;<br />
The, uh.. &#8220;safer&#8221; we are, the safer we want to be, most of us.<br />
The tendency of the&#8230; flock to believe that more of a good thing is always better ?<br />
What we believe as individuals is not necessarily the same as what we believe as the flock..<br />
Two days ago I had a heated discussion with a man, and realized that we had no common ground&#8230;Perhaps we should not have been talking about what we were talking about, and we would not have noticed that we had no common ground ?<br />
The next time I meet him, I will smile, be polite, and&#8230; not engage conversation&#8230;<br />
Or just talk about the weather&#8230;</p>
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		By: dave		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 04:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;But no one is concerned to get behind what the other person said in order to understand why they fear what they fear, and believe what they believe.&quot;

i do. some people think i&#039;m a bit weird, others don&#039;t like to be questioned on how their opinions are formed, others still, enjoy it.
i do it because i have a life long interest in human behaviour. not unsurprising really, for a human.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;But no one is concerned to get behind what the other person said in order to understand why they fear what they fear, and believe what they believe.&#8221;</p>
<p>i do. some people think i&#8217;m a bit weird, others don&#8217;t like to be questioned on how their opinions are formed, others still, enjoy it.<br />
i do it because i have a life long interest in human behaviour. not unsurprising really, for a human.</p>
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		By: steviefinn		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 15:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.golemxiv.co.uk/2013/02/the-art-of-listening/#comment-25919&quot;&gt;Debra&lt;/a&gt;.

Now that is real poetry, thank you, I was not aware of it&#039;s existence.

   I suppose that I am not going to be left alone in a large room, as there are millions out there with similar stubby candles, lights of hope maybe.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.golemxiv.co.uk/2013/02/the-art-of-listening/#comment-25919">Debra</a>.</p>
<p>Now that is real poetry, thank you, I was not aware of it&#8217;s existence.</p>
<p>   I suppose that I am not going to be left alone in a large room, as there are millions out there with similar stubby candles, lights of hope maybe.</p>
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		By: steviefinn		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 14:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.golemxiv.co.uk/2013/02/the-art-of-listening/#comment-25914&quot;&gt;JayD&lt;/a&gt;.

JayD

    In my ignorance I imagined the above to be those fellas the MSM like to focus on during demos, the guys who wear black balaclavas. This led me to the thought that I am long past the age of being capable of such behaviour. So I had a listen to Mr. Chomsky to find out his thoughts on the subject, very very interesting. I like the term Socialist libertarian. Thank you for that.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&#038;v=h_x0Y3FqkEI]]></description>
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<p>JayD</p>
<p>    In my ignorance I imagined the above to be those fellas the MSM like to focus on during demos, the guys who wear black balaclavas. This led me to the thought that I am long past the age of being capable of such behaviour. So I had a listen to Mr. Chomsky to find out his thoughts on the subject, very very interesting. I like the term Socialist libertarian. Thank you for that.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&#038;v=h_x0Y3FqkEI" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&#038;v=h_x0Y3FqkEI</a></p>
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		By: Debra		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 09:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It is beyond me how, in a civilization where &quot;reason&quot; has become our God, we are incapable of understanding how much we are... &quot;subjects&quot; ? of our current ideological polarization/wars.

For info, last week, our national classical music radio broadcast the following nasty tidbit : an American (woman) New York university professor has (pompously, me) decreed that opera is dead, long live.. telereality.

I think that if &quot;one&quot; wants to be capable of &quot;reason&quot; one must.. ban the expression &quot;the elites&quot; from one&#039;s vocabulary at this time....otherwise, one is engaging in demagogy...

I told my husband last night that if Voltaire were magically resurrected and once again among us, he would be absolutely horrified at what HIS fight against demagogy has produced in OUR world.
Sobering thought...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is beyond me how, in a civilization where &#8220;reason&#8221; has become our God, we are incapable of understanding how much we are&#8230; &#8220;subjects&#8221; ? of our current ideological polarization/wars.</p>
<p>For info, last week, our national classical music radio broadcast the following nasty tidbit : an American (woman) New York university professor has (pompously, me) decreed that opera is dead, long live.. telereality.</p>
<p>I think that if &#8220;one&#8221; wants to be capable of &#8220;reason&#8221; one must.. ban the expression &#8220;the elites&#8221; from one&#8217;s vocabulary at this time&#8230;.otherwise, one is engaging in demagogy&#8230;</p>
<p>I told my husband last night that if Voltaire were magically resurrected and once again among us, he would be absolutely horrified at what HIS fight against demagogy has produced in OUR world.<br />
Sobering thought&#8230;</p>
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		By: Debra		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 08:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.golemxiv.co.uk/2013/02/the-art-of-listening/#comment-25913&quot;&gt;steviefinn&lt;/a&gt;.

Ha, you are a poet, Stevie Finn, and that pleases me mightily...
You are making a disguised plea for reason  though... ;-)
I like Caravaggio much better than Murillo, and other Spanish paintings of the Age d&#039;Or ? (just guessing...) where black is so dominant.
But Seurat is not really my tasse de thé, as we say. Not my cup of tea.
Think about what the Bard says in &quot;The Merchant of Venice&quot; :

&quot;That light we see is burning in my hall ;
How far that little candle throws his beams !
So shines a good deed in a naughty world.

When the moon shone we did not see the candle.

So doth the greater glory dim the less.
A substitute shines brightly as a king
Until a king be by, and then his state
Empties itself, as doth an inland brrok
Into the main of waters. Music, Hark !

It is your music, madam, of the house.

Nothing is good, I see, without respect :
Methinks it sounds much sweeter than by day.

Silence bestows that virtue on it, madam.

The crow doth sing as sweetly as the lark
When neither is attended ; and I think
The nightingale, if she should sing by day
When every goose is cacklng, would be thought
No better a musician than the wren.
How many things by season seasoned are
To their right praise and true perfection !
Peace ! How the moon sleeps with Endymion, and would not be awaked...&quot;
Act V, 90-109

For you, Stevie Finn, the poet...who doesn&#039;t like small candles...
(We could all be small candles, but... if we all want to be big suns, well... you get the picture.)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.golemxiv.co.uk/2013/02/the-art-of-listening/#comment-25913">steviefinn</a>.</p>
<p>Ha, you are a poet, Stevie Finn, and that pleases me mightily&#8230;<br />
You are making a disguised plea for reason  though&#8230; 😉<br />
I like Caravaggio much better than Murillo, and other Spanish paintings of the Age d&#8217;Or ? (just guessing&#8230;) where black is so dominant.<br />
But Seurat is not really my tasse de thé, as we say. Not my cup of tea.<br />
Think about what the Bard says in &#8220;The Merchant of Venice&#8221; :</p>
<p>&#8220;That light we see is burning in my hall ;<br />
How far that little candle throws his beams !<br />
So shines a good deed in a naughty world.</p>
<p>When the moon shone we did not see the candle.</p>
<p>So doth the greater glory dim the less.<br />
A substitute shines brightly as a king<br />
Until a king be by, and then his state<br />
Empties itself, as doth an inland brrok<br />
Into the main of waters. Music, Hark !</p>
<p>It is your music, madam, of the house.</p>
<p>Nothing is good, I see, without respect :<br />
Methinks it sounds much sweeter than by day.</p>
<p>Silence bestows that virtue on it, madam.</p>
<p>The crow doth sing as sweetly as the lark<br />
When neither is attended ; and I think<br />
The nightingale, if she should sing by day<br />
When every goose is cacklng, would be thought<br />
No better a musician than the wren.<br />
How many things by season seasoned are<br />
To their right praise and true perfection !<br />
Peace ! How the moon sleeps with Endymion, and would not be awaked&#8230;&#8221;<br />
Act V, 90-109</p>
<p>For you, Stevie Finn, the poet&#8230;who doesn&#8217;t like small candles&#8230;<br />
(We could all be small candles, but&#8230; if we all want to be big suns, well&#8230; you get the picture.)</p>
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